Proverbs 17:9
Whoever would foster love covers over an offense, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.
This is so true. When we move on from an offense, and don’t continue to dwell on it and talk about it, we take the first step toward forgiveness. This is an active step that requires effort. This can be especially difficult if the offender has not owned up to their actions. I do not believe this passage is suggesting that we tolerate offenses and do nothing. We must move on, move out, do whatever needs to be done. But we also need to somehow forgive.
Holy Lord, help me to give up whatever I feel I gain by repeating stories of times I have been wronged. This does nothing but prolong my own hurt and angry feelings. And it is withholding forgiveness. Help me to hear your guidance through the Holy Spirit, who is ever present for me. Amen
Becky, transforming
Monday, July 22nd, 2024
Proverbs 17: 9
Whoever covers an offense seeks love, but he who repeats a matter separates close friends
When we choose to forgive , we are showing love to the other person in an attempt to restore the relationship. Forgiveness can be difficult, especially when we have been deeply hurt by someone. It is a positive act that gives us the ability to transform our relationships and bring healing to our own hearts. as the old saying goes , holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. It is our own peace and well-being that is affected when we choose to hold on to anger and resentment . By letting…
Proverbs 17:9
A close friendship often happens with the first sentiment. To forgive someone shows them your willingness to pursue a friendship. When we dwell on someones’s shortcomings, there is little chance a friendship will blossom.
Prayer: Gracious God, help me see the best in those I meet and forget and forgive their faults and may they do the same with me. Amen
Proverbs 17:9
I have previously mentioned a daily prayer software I use called PrayerMate. One of the lists it cycles through is headed, “My Walk with God.” In this list there is an item labeled, “Yield to love.” If this is our first impulse in all things, forgiveness comes much more easily and naturally in our interactions with other people. Being reminded periodically helps me to put this concept into action, but even with the reminders, I must depend on the Holy Spirit. When I do, and when love prevails, that day, that interaction, that moment is infinitely better than the alternative.
Prayer - Loving God, help me this and every day to yield to love that covers every offense…